Why do we negotiate with ourselves?

My mentor recently asked me to write a list of all the outcomes I desired.

I have been putting it off for a few days and kept thinking… I am just not that sure ‘exactly’ what those outcomes are so I better wait. 

Then a call with a client last week who came to me with the same thing, “I just don’t really know what I want. I can’t decide what is the right decision to make”

The funny thing is I saw straight through what her ego was presenting me with. I saw straight through her cover story - one that a lot of people have. She had two big life decisions to make but she knew exactly what she wanted. She was just too scared by how much she wanted it and the fear of it going wrong. Once we bought her fear to the surface and moved through all the conditioning and stories… her soul appeared. Addressed us directly and told us [down to the tiniest detail] exactly what her dream life would look and most importantly FEEL like.

Then today the click. Another client, another gift for me. Another opportunity for me to be reminded of what is coming up in my life. 

Do I really not know what I desire or am I going back into it again?

Back into…

⭐ Who am I to desire more? 

⭐ Who am I to get to have that level of impact that I dream of?

⭐ Who am I to want to change the world in this way?

⭐ Who am I to think that this level of growth is possible?

⭐ Who am I to go bigger, bolder, brighter?

⭐ Who am I to dream of that LEVEL of impact? Of bringing that much ME to the world. 

⭐ And the how, the how can it happen…always the how…….

And then the realisation....  

Who am I not to?

I mean seriously, what are we all doing? The negotiating, the bargaining, the scarcity. The belief it's too greedy, we are not worthy, it’s too much.

Not wanting to be too much, ask for too much, desire too much, receive too much. 

This has to stop. 

We are supposed to expand. We are supposed to shine brightly. We are supposed to focus purely on our task of being as much us as we can possibly be.

We are supposed to tap into our desires and dreams and then leap so fully into the belief that we can have them that we become unstoppable. 

Please know.. that greatness you feel and see inside of you… that is your TRUTH.

Not this conditioned response to keep toning it down. Negotiating. Settling. 

So today I want you to do this..

Write down EVERYTHING you dream of.

Let EVERYTHING you desire to be, feel and have come out of you.

Then do this. Decide that because you feel it, it gets to be yours. It’s a done deal. It’s source in action. It’s only a matter of time. 

And your job?

Your job is to continually keep honouring all that is inside of you. To keep receiving more. Asking for more. Expanding more. 

Yes with gratitude, yes with humility, yes with love.

But always with a YES PLEASE.