When I separated I had a vision of a new family dynamic I wanted to manifest…

When I separated I had a vision of a new family dynamic I wanted to manifest.

I wrote it out in detail and put so much energy into visioning it.

One where we could be friends and support each other in a new way.

One where we could still have a family holiday a year with the children and for it to be peaceful, harmonious and loving.

This week I’ve experienced just that.

Getting to this point has not always been easy.

It is challenging to redefine boundaries and navigate new dynamics, especially when new relationships become involved.

But for me I believed it was possible and a path that was very much available (and I understand for many that is not the case).

One of the key things I did was to ignore the way so many people say separation has to be done.

To let go of what other people thought was the right way.

To ignore the often well meaning comments about it being a bit weird.

To find a way that felt true to me.

This has been true to anything I’ve wanted to manifest.

I’ve connected with the desire.

I’ve got clear on why it’s good for everyone around me.

I’ve believed anything is possible.

I’ve ignored people you said I was wrong.

I’ve tunnel visioned on my version of it.

I’ve removed the blocks to it.

I’ve healed any resistance to it.

I’ve been brave in choosing it.

Then I’ve aligned my thoughts, words and actions to having it.

Then I have trusted. Shown up. Surrendered.

On repeat.